I know I write about ABBA’s music from time to time; the reason is that their music seems so prescient about LGBTQ+ love and lives …. it often seems sacred to me, not just (and not least) because it is so full of life and love, but also because it is so clearly aware of love, love’s pitfalls, and love’s glory. “Take a chance on me” for example …. who among us hasn’t had that anthem tell part of our story?
As God’s LGBTQ+ heirs it is our call to let love rule our hearts; that means the part where you are a little bit broken, a little bit hurt, a little bit vulnerable. Until or unless you can reach that dimension of vulnerable openness you cannot push through into the dimension of love where the answer to “take a chance on me” is “lay all your love on me.”
Take a chance, indeed. In his letter to the church at Rome [Romans 14:1-12] Paul wrote “welcome those who are weak in faith.” In other words, take a chance on them, love them, and take a chance on love. He also asked “why do you pass judgment? … we all will stand before the judgment seat of God.” It is inevitable that we will be tempted to pass judgment. As in yesterday driving to the supermarket, I had to pull over three different times to let tailgaters go past me. Let’s not tempt love by telling you how I judged them, but see? I keep telling you, this walking in love stuff isn’t easy.
What is easy is to judge and to demand that people should conform to you. What God calls us to do is to resist judging, to just love and not give energy in the absence of love. Pull over and wait, and when they’re gone, enjoy the first blush of fall color in the leaves and the joy of being with the one who 45 years ago took a chance on me.
In Matthew’s Gospel [18:21-35] Jesus is asked how many times one must forgive before one can give up. He uses a mathematical formula that was intended in his time to be beyond the imagining of his listeners. There is no specific number of times one must forgive, of course; rather it is that forgiveness is always hard hard hard and yet must always be forthcoming. Because if we cannot forgive we are not only not walking in love, but we have left the dimension of love. Jesus offers a metaphor of eternal torture … well, when have you chosen not to forgive and how often are your tortured by that? It is all about how love comes from God to you and from you goes outward and not about those whom you are tempted to judge.
Our lectionary has us following the history of the generations of Abraham, which now on the retelling of the actual Exodus event [Exodus 14:19-31] are called “the army of Israel.” This is the famous parting of the Red Sea, and the exodus of Israel from captivity in Egypt.
The point here, as always, is how to shift into the dimension of love. Yes, this is a written account of events that were experienced in real time and recorded after centuries of oral history. But that is not what scripture is about. Scripture is for our enlightenment about the revelation of God’s action in creation. What did God do in the Red Sea but open the door into a different dimension? Israel found the door and passed through it. Those who could not did not do so well.
As indeed will we if we cannot find the door. But, if we do find the door we discover a passageway of miraculous love. And when we pass through we discover a life of love. We discover those who will take a chance on love.
It is no accident that LGBTQ+ people explain coming out as a kind of exodus. Coming out is not just escape from a closet, it is passing miraculously and perhaps perilously through a doorway into a different dimension where love prevails on a higher plane. Tough but life affirming. Scary but joyous. You know the rest.
Hallelujah! When Israel came out from the Red Sea, when you or I come out into the light of the dimension of love the mountains skip like rams and the little hills like young sheep … ‘tremble’ at the presence of [God’s love][Psalm 114].
Proper 19 Year A 2023 RCL (Exodus 14:19-31; Psalm 114; Romans 14:1-12; Matthew 18:21-35)
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