There are so many ways of experiencing love it is at once awesome (in the original meaning of that word) and impossible to contemplate. I love a beautiful day, I love the sun and warmth that signal a beautiful day, I love the aroma of pine needles in the warm sun on a beautiful day, I love how my heart sings when I experience a beautiful day, I love loving on a beautiful day, I love loving, giving love makes my heart sing—and on and on I could go. To say “I love” is at once the most beautiful and intimate thing any human ever can say because it is not just an expression of affection but it is also an expression of trust. It means “I trust”—I trust how my heart sings on a beautiful day, I trust how my singing heart embraces you on a beautiful day. To love is to trust with our entire being.
It is this kind of love, trust in being, that God asks of us. Indeed, it is all God asks of us, because if we can love, then we love God and each other and creation all at once. God creates us in God’s own image, and God gives us all of creation to nourish and nurture us, and all God asks of us is that we return the favor, that we love God by creating love in every relationship, by mirroring the images of the beloved people in our lives, that we nourish and nurture each other and thereby we trust God and each other and all of creation with our entire being. To be is to love.
The story of the Passover (Exodus 12:1-14) is a core liturgy of Judaism. In the traditional meaning of “liturgy,” which is “the people’s work,” remembrance of the Passover is an expression of faith that takes place through actions of families. It is interesting that much of Jewish faith takes place in the family. The Passover seder is more than a ritual meal, it is ritual action that in its performance stirs the love of the people participating. This love, once stirred, insures the awareness of the presence of God. Like the original narrative from Exodus, it is the expression of trust among the members of a community in each other, in God and in all of creation. In particular, as God has given it to be “the beginning of months …,” it is not just a day but it is a ritual of the eternal beginning of redemption, for it is in the eternity of beginning that redemption finds its realization. When we begin to love, we begin to be, and to be is to love. In this remembrance we experience God giving God’s people, who are eternally created in God’s own image, God’s eternal promise of love.
Of course, LGBTQ families are more often “logical”—made up of people we love and who love us whose life trajectories have brought together—than biological (see “The Majesty of Love” https://rpsplus.wordpress.com/2020/07/26/the-majesty-of-love/). Our families are created by the outpouring of love—trust with our entire being—from our own hearts. God redeems God’s families created by the love of God’s children. God protects the families truly created by the outpouring of God’s love.
“’Love your neighbor as yourself.’ Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore, love is the fulfilling of the law”—(Romans 13:8-14). I think Paul is trying to say first and foremost that love is all, therefore love must be pure and unfettered. When we love, Christ (who is God with us) is loving through us. Paul goes on to say that “now is the moment to wake from sleep” because salvation is ours if we can be awake to it, if we can be alert to love, if we can trust God and each other and all of creation with our entire being. Paul says “lay aside the works of darkness and put on the armor of light.” He means to leave the night behind and embrace the morning, the day, the light, the beginning—it is this light that is the cloak of Christ—for it is in the eternal beginning that we embrace not only our redemption but, indeed, our very salvation. To wear this cloak is to love, to embrace beginnings.
In Matthew’s Gospel (18:15-20) Jesus says “whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.” Love is the binder; to trust with our entire being is to bind ourselves to each other, to God and to all of creation. Whereever love is, Christ who is God with us, also always is. It is for this reason that “if two of you agree on earth about anything you ask, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. ” Whatever is bound with love is eternal. Whatever is bound with love is the eternal beginning of being, which is love.
Proper 18 Year A 2020 RCL (Exodus 12:1-14; Psalm 149 Cantate Domino; Romans 13:8-14; Matthew 18:15-20)
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