One of the wonderful things about being Episcopalian is the true and lengthy celebration of Christmas for the entire twelve days from the feast of the Nativity through the feast of the Epiphany. It is a gentle reminder that all of that joy and warmth is intended to persist, that Christmas is to be the beginning, that the critical turning point is the epiphany, the celebration of the moment of realization that this is not a beginning in linear time, but rather, a beginning of an opportunity for eternally ongoing renewal in our hearts.
And yes, we get to sing that wonderful music for two more weeks. Not to mention keep our Christmas trees!
Over the decades, because of my liturgical responsibilities my husband and I have evolved a sort of modified extended Christmastide. We cannot celebrate the feast of the seven fishes most Christmases because of my schedule so we moved that to New Year’s Eve. We have a leisurely dinner, then sit by the fireand listen to music and watch the sparkling light of our amazing Christmas tree (and each year’s is always the best one ever) as we welcome the new year with a moment that is as profound as it is calm. Then, we spend the next day doing mostly nothing and turning from my Italian roots to his southern roots with Hoppin’ John, cornbread and collards!
And then we still have five days left to celebrate Christmastide.
The profound quiet comes from the light of the incarnate Word “enkindled in our hearts,” like a candle just lighted, the flame growing and the light spreading ever outward to “shine forth in our lives.” [Book of Common Prayer collect for First Sunday after Christmas p. 213]. With this flame set alight in our lives, God has decked us with “garments of salvation,” the harbingers of “righteousness and praise” which will shine from us ever outward as the light that “shines out like the dawn” grows into “a burning torch” of love. [Isaiah 61:10-62:3]. And we sing “Joy to the World” and “Hark the Herald Angels Sing”—we sing “with thanksgiving.” [Psalm 147].
For now we see, now we know, that the light enkindled in our hearts is also the eternal connection with God and with each other that all of us share as heirs of creation [Galatians 3:23-25; 4:4-7]. We are freed in this eternal action of God to lead our lives in the dimension of love. We are eternally children of creation, not child-like, but rather, heirs and siblings, always connected one to another and to God through the love we share. It is no metaphor that in the celebration of the Nativity of Christ we renew and build up the love in our hearts with cards and gifts and meals and hugs and forgiveness and warmth and joy and singing. This is our call.
God is love, love is life, life is light, light prevails as, indeed, love prevails. And love is among us and we have seen the glory of love “full of grace and truth.” “From his fullness we have all received, grace upon grace.” [John 1:1-18].
In Meet me in St. Louis (1942) Judy Garland sings “Have yourself a merry little Christmas.” The lyrics tell an incredible human story from a time of great human tragedy. War was on all over the world, millions were displaced, soldiers went abroad, many would never come home. Shortages were everywhere. I just baked another batch of my grandmother’s Christmas cookies; her recipe from that time is full of what to do in the event you can’t find ingredients. Food was scarce. Life was precious. The future was, as Paul might have said, visible in a mirror dimly. Here are the lyrics (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Have_Yourself_a_Merry_Little_Christmas):
Have yourself a merry little Christmas
Let your heart be light
Next year, all our troubles will be out of sight
Have yourself a merry little Christmas
Make the yuletide gay
Next year, all our troubles will be miles away
Once again, as in olden days
Happy golden days of yore
Faithful friends, who are near to us
Will be dear to us
Once more
Someday soon, we all will be together
If the fates allow
Until then, we’ll have to muddle through somehow
So have yourself a merry little Christmas now
The composer/lyricist Hugh Martin was a man of faith. The lyrics capture the moment in time perfectly:
Let your heart be light … Fear not.
The light shines in the darkness and the darkness did not overcome it.
Let all the faithful gather to sing to the Lord a new song.
Longing, uncertainty … these are unfortunately ever part of the shape of human experience. LGBT+ people, God’s created LGBTQ+ people, have a place of pride in God’s pantheon, because we are called to embody love.
First Sunday after Christmas all years RCL 2023 (Isaiah 61:10-62:3; Psalm 147 or 147:13-21; Galatians 3:23-25;4:4-7; John 1:1-18)
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