There is a lot of talk lately about the mental health effects of the pandemic. I keep encountering the idea that the isolation is somehow underneath everything from road rage to political divisiveness. It is certainly the case that we miss our friends, and especially all the hugs we used to rely on. It also is true that just the absence of simple proximity—everything from chatting with the guy with whom you’re sharing picking potatoes from a bin to actual office (staff, faculty, whatever) meetings, to large otherwise seemingly impersonal gatherings like sports, concerts or movies—is underlying our increasing failure to understand that despite our differences we all are in the world together.
I think there is a good case to be made here. And I think it is one way of redefining the notion of sin. Sin is disconnectedness—being disconnected from God, which is what happens when we are disconnected from each other, and vice versa because when we are disconnected from each other we are essentially disconnected from God. I often have preached about sin by saying it has nothing to do per se with eating chocolate or physical intimacy or any of the other lists of things that are supposedly sinful. No particular thing in and of itself is sinful unless in takes place in the context of disconnection. And that disconnection is always the manifestation of the absence of love. As usual, love is the answer.
So we ask this week that we might be set free from disconnection. In fact, we pray that we might receive relief. The one thing we need the most is relief from the fear and anxiety caused by the pandemic. But a close second is that we need relief from the isolation and disconnectedness that are the collateral damage from the pandemic. Where might we get relief? I was pleasantly surprised this past week to discover relief coming at me from several directions. The one thing they all had in common was that I thanked someone who gave me good news. The relief, the connection, came when I gave thanks. Because giving thanks is manifesting love.
Isaiah 40: 26 reminds us that our connection with God is eternal “He who brings out their host and numbers them, calling them all by name … not one is missing.” It is a comfort, perhaps a relief, to remember (to try to remember) that God is eternally connected to each of us by the love that knows every atom in creation. It is up to us to keep that connection not only alive but to help it flourish by the constant flow of love among us.
Paul reminds us too (1 Corinthians 9:23) that the Gospel of Christ, the good news of salvation is all about love, love as a flowing stream, love as a two-way street, love as the greatest equalizing reward. We give each other love in order that we might build up greater love in which we all might share. We love so that we all might share in the blessing of loving.
In Mark’s Gospel (1:29-39) Jesus heals first Simon’s mother-in-law, then everyone from the city who was sick or possessed with demons and then went on to neighboring towns to proclaim the message there. It is an example of the building up of love exponentially by the manifestation of loving. Healing, especially in the Jesus narrative is not just about the absence of symptoms. Rather, it is about being able to rejoin the community, to once again become one with the community. What Jesus does is to remove the vacuum caused by the absence of love so that loving connectedness might be restored. And it is in this act that we see the recognition of God, who knows every atom in creation by name, who calls us eternally to restore and refresh and nourish the exponential power of love.
We in the LGBTQ community know this truth all too well. The simple reality of our social stance is that we are “diverse” or “different” from everyone else—a unique form of social isolation. The pandemic has contributed not only to the further deepening of chasms separating people but also to the loss of our own LGBTQ sense of community. Our “watering holes,” that in reality for decades or more have really been social centers, have disappeared along with parades and street fairs and even hot dogs on the beach. Yet it is we, those who are identified by the love we create and experience and share, it is we who are uniquely qualified to call creation back into the flow of love.
We are called, even in this time of pandemic isolation to continually reconnect, to remember that simply by thanking each other we manifest love. We are called to remember that it is up to everyone who is known intimately, everyone who is numbered and called by name by God, to manifest the blessings of exponential love.
Fifth Sunday after the Epiphany Year B 2021 RCL (Isaiah 40:21-31; Psalm 147:1-12, 21c; 1 Corinthians 9:16-23; Mark 1:29-39)
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